I value each other’s privacy pero if ganyan lng din mababasa ko. Screw privacy! It’s affecting me…A LOT.
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— Judith McNaught
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #37
if you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give you the world.
How To Deal With Rejection
How To Deal With Rejection
Ouch. Rejection can hurt. No matter how confident you are, it can be hard to deal with. Here are the Dos and Don’ts for surviving rejection:
- Allow yourself to feel bad…for a short time. It’s ok to feel badly after being rejection – everyone feels that way so don’t fight it. Let yourself feel hurt but put a time limit on it. Don’t wallow for days in misery. Just acknowledge that you feel badly and then move on.
- Feel good for trying. It takes major courage to put yourself out there and ask someone out. Whether or not they say yes, it was impressive that you even had the guts to do it, so feel good about the fact that you put yourself out there.
- Take some time apart. Give yourself some space from the person who rejected you so that you can get over it and heal your hurt or embarrassment in private.
- Shrug it off. If you act like you can just bounce back from rejection with no problems then sooner or later you’ll start to believe it. Act in a way that you want your emotions to mirror.
- Focus your sights on something else. Throw yourself into a new goal or project for a positive distraction.
- Shy away from taking chances in the future. Don’t let rejection get the best of you by scaring you away from putting yourself out there in the future. Learn from it and see it as a practice round for the future.
- Make a huge deal of it. If you act like it’s the end of the world, it will seem that way to the other person to. If you act like it’s no big deal and you can still face them without being awkward, then that’s what will happen.
- Tell everyone about it beforehand. If you do, you’ll have to tell them all about how you were rejected. Having to tell everyone and re-hash your rejection will only make you feel worse. If no one knows about it, no one will know that you’ve been rejected.
- Beat yourself up. Don’t turn rejection into a pity party and beat yourself up for being a loser. You showed great courage in putting yourself out there and took a risk – so focus on feeling good about that.
- Assume that it’s you. Don’t assume that they said no because of you. Maybe they have something else going on and that was their reason for saying no. It’s not necessarily because they don’t like you or because of any faults that you have.
— Bathroom graffiti
Yes, I’m still sad but I WILL NEVER GIVE UP and I will never lose hope. I am determine to make all my dreams possible here in Canada even if it takes me yearssssss to achieve it. Sorry but I’m keeping my faith and I will not allow you to break me. So I will stop this nonsense, put on a smile and live through the pain. I know this will pass. Aja yen! kaya yan :)
now is the right time.
You know that thing you have been putting off? Now is the right time to do it. Remember … if you act like now is all the time you have, you will always have all the time in the world.
Blue is the new black! :) (at SilverCity Fairview Mall Cinemas)
PRINCIPLE OF COMPASSION.
From the moment we are born, we are always feeling something. We can stop our conscious thoughts when we are sleeping, but we can never stop feeling, because to be alive is to feel life. Every part of our human body is created so we can feel life! My principle of compassion lies in the ability to deeply understand the emotional state of another person or oneself. It is a virtue which requires to put ourselves consistently in another person’s shoes, to feel his or her pain as though it were our own, and to enter into his or her point of view.
I would point compassion like a force. A force that draws a person to another person, to another person. It draws people to form cities and nations, groups , clubs and societies, where they share common interests. It is a force that pulls one person to really get to know the other person’s feeling.
Compassion encompasses empathy. Empathy is the aspect of compassion that opens one to a deeper understanding of the other’s suffering. That is why compassion is sometimes called “love in action” by Mother Teresa.
Compassionate action is a willingness to go beyond self-interest and give of oneself for the good of the other. In this regard it is similar to altruism, letting go of one’s own needs to attend to the needs of another. Compassionate action where one can meet one’s own deepest need and that is to feel a part of a larger shared humanity.
Start putting yourself first- get where you want to be , and make your man be all that he can be. Remember this: the number one cause of failure in this country is the fear of failure. Fear paralyzes you from taking action. Don’t be afraid to lose him, because if a man truly loves you, he’s not going anywhere.
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